I don't know man, I thnk you are whining way beyond any "wrongs" done to you. You keep saying $1K plus in statues but that includes the one that you worked out a conversion on without his knowledge, one that is not even here yet but is less than 1 month overdue, and one they would ship to you today but you keep telling them you don't want it.
At this point you have started multiple threads in which you complain nearly every day. You have received $300 refund on Ahrian which you are getting basically because he doesn't want you to have any more of his statues. He refunded it within 2 weeks of his promise. Most companies require 30 days to process refunds (or so they say). The reason you didn't get the whole thing is obvious, he is witholding some of your money to cover shipping costs on the conversion piece because he knows if he refunds you all of your money that you won't pay for the shipping on that once calculated.
If I was him at this point I would just ship you the Sha-ryn and tell you that you ordered a Sha-ryn, you get a Sha-ryn. It's not defective. If you think that having a top is a deal breaker sue me. They offered you an in store credit (substantial if you ask me) and all he got for his trouble is half a dozen threads of you complaining. At this point there is no reason to give you anything. I would accomodate others who are disappointed with the top with an in store credit but I would just send you a Sha-ryn and be done with you (unless you sue, then I would look forward to watching a grown man argue that not having an 18" girl with exposed breasts is grounds for a full refund in front of a judge) Even if he loses he would only owe what you are demanding anyway.
Now, to be clear, I'm not saying you have no beefs but good lord man a little perspective might be in order IMO.