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Old 03-04-2019, 12:26 PM   #4751
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Sorry to hear that fellas, hope it works out ok and you come out happier on the other side
Agreed. Though this is hard, I wish you the best at the end!
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Old 03-04-2019, 12:36 PM   #4752
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Thanks guys.
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Old 03-04-2019, 12:49 PM   #4753
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Bummer guys. Hate to see anyone go through that.
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Old 03-04-2019, 02:41 PM   #4754
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A buddy of mine went through divorce. Took two years to finish it. All the emotional involved. It’s got to be really really hard. Especially with little ones.
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Old 03-04-2019, 11:40 PM   #4755
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Had a good exchange today. I’ll keep the lights on.

Good night SF! Good night Mafia! You too Coca and Drew, and Darren and Bags and Ed...and Frankie Rock and CK...and Lou...wherever you are! Ant! I see you!
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Old 03-05-2019, 07:51 AM   #4756
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Same here. It's been probably 4 weeks for me also. It definitely sucks. I was willing to work it out but she walked out on me. Do you have kids?
Yep 8 year old girl and 6 year old boy

We'd been struggling for about 18 months and she got really close to a male friend she met through church, confessed she had feelings for him and 4 weeks ago he had a stroke at 43 and she ended up kissing him as they were both scared they wouldn't have acted on their feelings for each other.

Really sucks and I don't recognise the woman I knew for 20 years anymore. Hurts that she has walked into a new relationship and I'm out on my own.

Quite a few people have been real supportive and said this is a time for me to go do what I want and find myself etc
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Old 03-05-2019, 11:52 AM   #4757
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Man, sorry to hear about everyone's troubles at home.
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Old 03-05-2019, 11:58 AM   #4758
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Yep 8 year old girl and 6 year old boy

We'd been struggling for about 18 months and she got really close to a male friend she met through church, confessed she had feelings for him and 4 weeks ago he had a stroke at 43 and she ended up kissing him as they were both scared they wouldn't have acted on their feelings for each other.

Really sucks and I don't recognise the woman I knew for 20 years anymore. Hurts that she has walked into a new relationship and I'm out on my own.

Quite a few people have been real supportive and said this is a time for me to go do what I want and find myself etc
I feel for you brother. I don't know what to say. You're going to feel like crap for a while but eventually when you accept that this has happened you'll start feeling better. You will feel better. If she did something like this you're probably better off without her. When you're ready start dating. Don't wait to see if she comes back. If it happens and you forgive her and she gains your trust again then cross that bridge when you get there. But the important thing is not to wait. Also get out there and hang out with your friends. Visit family. Try not to be by yourself. It will just give you time to think about all this ----.
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Old 03-05-2019, 04:04 PM   #4759
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Yep 8 year old girl and 6 year old boy

We'd been struggling for about 18 months and she got really close to a male friend she met through church, confessed she had feelings for him and 4 weeks ago he had a stroke at 43 and she ended up kissing him as they were both scared they wouldn't have acted on their feelings for each other.

Really sucks and I don't recognise the woman I knew for 20 years anymore. Hurts that she has walked into a new relationship and I'm out on my own.

Quite a few people have been real supportive and said this is a time for me to go do what I want and find myself etc
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I feel for you brother. I don't know what to say. You're going to feel like crap for a while but eventually when you accept that this has happened you'll start feeling better. You will feel better. If she did something like this you're probably better off without her. When you're ready start dating. Don't wait to see if she comes back. If it happens and you forgive her and she gains your trust again then cross that bridge when you get there. But the important thing is not to wait. Also get out there and hang out with your friends. Visit family. Try not to be by yourself. It will just give you time to think about all this ----.
Good advice!
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Old 03-05-2019, 04:37 PM   #4760
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Nothing much brother. In the middle of a divorce but I'm going good.
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Separated from my wife 4 weeks ago too. Kinda sucks
Sorry to hear, Really sucks But in the End it will all work out. I know it Sucks to hear that now, but it always seems to work that way.

I will tell you as a word of advise, don't bad mouth the wife in front of the kids. I see kids get messed up from that. If she does it , screw it it will make you look even better in their eyes. You guys be the stronger, Good guys. let them know Dad is the Man and you have their back, no matter what.

I hope you both get through it, and I got your backs as well.
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