The Ultimate Forum Group: The NY Mafia: XXXV

[Frankierock]

Sucks that it took this to make the Mafia forum move the needle a bit..

But glad its here for things like this if needed.

[The General]

Originally Posted by Frankierock

Sorry to hear, Really sucks But in the End it will all work out. I know it Sucks to hear that now, but it always seems to work that way.

I will tell you as a word of advise, don't bad mouth the wife in front of the kids. I see kids get messed up from that. If she does it , screw it it will make you look even better in their eyes. You guys be the stronger, Good guys. let them know Dad is the Man and you have their back, no matter what.

I hope you both get through it, and I got your backs as well.
Mafia Strong!

My cousin told me the same thing. I won't do that as much as I want to. Thanks for the kind words dude.

[Frankierock]

Originally Posted by The General

My cousin told me the same thing. I won't do that as much as I want to. Thanks for the kind words dude.

feel free to bad mouth her here as much as you like..we won't tell..LOL

[The General]

Originally Posted by Frankierock

feel free to bad mouth her here as much as you like..we won't tell..LOL

lol It's very tempting because it's her fault my son had to go through this. I was willing to go see a couples therapist but she didn't even want to try. She walked out on me. I won't bad mouth her but if in the future my son asks me I'll tell him that she walked out on me. I didn't want the divorce. I won't bad mouth her even then but I will tell him the truth. When we broke the news to him I had to bite my tongue. I felt like telling him this is all mommy's doing but I didn't want to make the situation any worse for him. But yeah I'm angry.

[Frankierock]

Originally Posted by The General

lol It's very tempting because it's her fault my son had to go through this. I was willing to go see a couples therapist but she didn't even want to try. She walked out on me. I won't bad mouth her but if in the future my son asks me I'll tell him that she walked out on me. I didn't want the divorce. I won't bad mouth her even then but I will tell him the truth. When we broke the news to him I had to bite my tongue. I felt like telling him this is all mommy's doing but I didn't want to make the situation any worse for him. But yeah I'm angry.

I know all to well as my parents got divorced when I was about 12..they still badmouth each other to this day. And i'm now 45...
but in the end your son will see the truth and fully understand the situation.

I had one of my girlfriends do the same to me..we both thought at one point we would get married. low and behold she is out of the pitcure ..Then went on to meet my Wife a little later and have a awesome Son. All things that would have never happened with the other one..
So there is always hope and happier times.

[The General]

Originally Posted by Frankierock

I know all to well as my parents got divorced when I was about 12..they still badmouth each other to this day. And i'm now 45...
but in the end your son will see the truth and fully understand the situation.

I had one of my girlfriends do the same to me..we both thought at one point we would get married. low and behold she is out of the pitcure ..Then went on to meet my Wife a little later and have a awesome Son. All things that would have never happened with the other one..
So there is always hope and happier times.

I can't believe I'm going to be single at this age (46). I'm hoping God leads me to a good wife. I'm not that old. But I won't badmouth my ex. Allot of times the kids get traumatized when parents do that stuff. I love my son too much to do that to him. He's 11. He took the news badly but bounced back quickly. He seems to be doing okay. I'm thankful for that.

[VaultMan]

Originally Posted by Frankierock

Sorry to hear, Really sucks But in the End it will all work out. I know it Sucks to hear that now, but it always seems to work that way.

I will tell you as a word of advise, don't bad mouth the wife in front of the kids. I see kids get messed up from that. If she does it , screw it it will make you look even better in their eyes. You guys be the stronger, Good guys. let them know Dad is the Man and you have their back, no matter what.

I hope you both get through it, and I got your backs as well.
Mafia Strong!

:thumbsup:

[VaultMan]

Originally Posted by The General

lol It's very tempting because it's her fault my son had to go through this. I was willing to go see a couples therapist but she didn't even want to try. She walked out on me. I won't bad mouth her but if in the future my son asks me I'll tell him that she walked out on me. I didn't want the divorce. I won't bad mouth her even then but I will tell him the truth. When we broke the news to him I had to bite my tongue. I felt like telling him this is all mommy's doing but I didn't want to make the situation any worse for him. But yeah I'm angry.

Understood

[Frankierock]

Yuck, another day another dollar...I need to hit that lottery man. Waking up early when you have work sucks...waking up early on Vacation is awesome...ohh well the daily grind continues...enjoy the day guys!

[VaultMan]

You too Frankie!

Man wish I could hit the big game jackpot!