Divorce for my son getting messy.

[DeKind]

that doesnt sound messy it sounds like great news. as previously stated hopefully your son was quick enough to gather evidence. if he did its open and shut.

[WebDaemon]

I don't know where you are located but if you are in need of a good attorney drop me a PM, I have some friends who could really do some damage.

Here are a couple tips:

Take pictures and video of the trailer.

Marriage License's are public record, have your son pull the records to prove that she has remarried, and (potentially violated the divorce agreement).

The infidelity, poor housing, and character flaws should be enough to remove custody.

[VinReaper]

Originally Posted by nbr3bagshotrow

So my son was officially divorced in Feb of this year after only about a 2 year marriage. As part of the agreement, he pays for her rent in their trailer (a double wide 3 BR) for one year. She's responsible for utilities, food, etc. He also pays child support for our granddaughter till she turns 19. His wife still doesn't have a job.

A couple of weeks ago she announces she's moving out of the trailer and moving to an apartment. As part of the agreement, if she moves out she only gets 200/month alimony. We are a little concerned and he asks her how she's going to afford an apartment as she isn't working. Her response is "it's all taken care of". Last week she moves out and my son goes to clean the trailer. Bugs, refrigerators disgusting, basically a mess. Our granddaughter has been living there. He goes to talk to her about the condition of the trailer and reminds her, she is responsible for 1/2 the trailer rent as they both signed a 4 year lease to own agreement (expires in May 2010). She's full of excuses about the condition and "agrees" to pay her share of the rent until it expires.

Anyways, Saturday she picks up Persia (our granddaughter) and brings her back to our house (both of them live with us, him full time, her 3 or 4 days / week). She calls him and says she is missing her id and asks if it's in the diaper bag. He looks and sure enough, finds a military id. His first response is "Gina's joined the army"! (Gina's his ex-wife) On closer examination, it is a spouse id card. She went and got married almost two months ago. She's accepting his alimony payments (the rent on the trailer) for two months we are aware of and no communication regarding the marriage. We also come to find, from neighbors to the trailer, a guy (the same guy she was found to be cheating with that led my son to file for divorce) has been staying there for at least two months. Part of the agreement was both parties are to communicate to each other regarding Persia's health, education, and general welfare. Wouldn't you think getting married would require communication as it ultimately affects Persia's general welfare?

My son is livid. Not only did she get married but they have both been living on his rent payments. We also think Gina may be pregnant. 4 months after divorcing my son, she gets married, may be pregnant, and takes him for his rent payments (which was only supposed to be for her). Needless to say we think this is fraud and are seeking legal council and will look to take full custody of Persia. What a lying thieving B!tch.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Sorry to hear! But your course of action is well warranted. The both of them should be brought up on charges, I would be sure to to report anythng until they have stolen over $1000.00 so as to make it a felony. Then hold it over their heads for the custody of your grand daughter. For sure the military knucklehead will be the first to jump at it since the service will not stand for those dishonorable acts and his future with the service will be in jeopardy and everything he worked for.

I wish you and your family the best of luck and please keep us posted!

VR

[nbr3bagshotrow]

Originally Posted by VinReaper

Sorry to hear! But your course of action is well warranted. The both of them should be brought up on charges, I would be sure to to report anythng until they have stolen over $1000.00 so as to make it a felony. Then hold it over their heads for the custody of your grand daughter. For sure the military knucklehead will be the first to jump at it since the service will not stand for those dishonorable acts and his future with the service will be in jeopardy and everything he worked for.

I wish you and your family the best of luck and please keep us posted!

VR

This is our thoughts too. Taking money under false pretenses is a felony. If we can work this to get full custody, we will.

And by the way, thanks to all for your thoughts.

[endsongjen]

Originally Posted by oddball

she did him a favor. now he has proof and can petition the court to discontinue alimony and maybe even get back what she shouldn't have stolen from him. damn shame there's a kid involved with that mess.

EXACTLY! take her back to court and have your son get custody of that baby girl! like everyone has said, take pictures, print a copy of the marriage license, reread the alimony agreement, and hell if he can take a statement from the guy that was living in the trailer even better! i hate chicks that take money and dont work. ugh

i hope persia is well

[Perna]

Keith, I am so sorry that you guys and especially your granddaughter is being put through this. I really hope you take care of your son's ex who is nothing but a scheming underhanded biatch! Good luck my friend.

[ratchet]

So sorry for your situation! This is so horrible - so sorry for Persia.

Originally Posted by Jesse321

I'm begining to understand why alligators eat their young.

Wait... what does that mean? You want one of them to eat the kid? Why does the little girl need to be eaten?

[abarron]

Man that must be tough
Hope everything works out for your son
Sounds like he is better off without her

[Kingofthehill78]

Hopefully she will get sent to jail for fraud. That would learn her not to try and scam people. I'm very sorry about that keith.

[ratchet]

Originally Posted by Kingofthehill78

Hopefully she will get sent to jail for fraud. That would learn her not to try and scam people. I'm very sorry about that keith.

It would also teach her!